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{dirtier} Fishing…

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When I was pregnant with Shanna I really wanted to be suspended and do pictures of that. I never got around to it. Seeing as this is probably my last pregnancy I should hurry up!

There is a photo party at Edges tonight that I might actually be able to go to if Noah is feeling magnanimous. (I would have to go alone.) Otherwise it would be April 9th. Honestly trying for later than that is pushing it on my physical capability.

This would need to be a very comfortable suspension. I already have significantly increased blood volume and my pain tolerance is down pretty far. 🙂 Think artistic…

So yeah. I know a few folks who are amazing at rope but because y’all know who my first thought is “amazing at rope” and why I won’t be asking him I’m kind feeling… limited. I don’t know who has gained tons of experience in the past few years so I should approach them. Uhm, any ideas?

Bitching about tribe and the bdsm community in general.

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For a while now I have felt that I will not support the Citadel by going to parties or playing there because the favortism and attitudes that the owners have towards their little pets. I went to classes periodically because that was the only place to see those classes. I have decided that I am better off missing those events. I won’t give that space one more dollar of my money. I have no respect for the way it is being run, for the gossip, for the bullshit posturing, for the ridiculous ass-kissing, for any of it really. I want nothing to do with the space in any way. They repeatedly delete all threads that specifically list complaints with how the space is being run and then say, “Well, why don’t you volunteer if you want things to be different!” Because volunteering there does nothing to change the system. The well is poisoned from the very top and that can’t/won’t be fixed by volunteering. Instead, I will vote with my feet and my wallet.

I’ve been around long enough to know that I just need to be patient. This space will go away eventually.

Sex/play party curiosity

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Party the first at this location was remarkably… mellow. People only played if I pushed them to play pretty hard. I found this amusing. I have already been asked if I plan to host more sex parties and seeing as Noah and I have talked about that several times I figure it is worthwhile to see what kind of interest people have. This is a fairly narrow filter, though most of the time partners are on the filter. Please do not spread around mention of this as there are many “obvious” people to invite to this sort of party who I am not inviting for whatever reason. I’m thinking that once I get past the initial bit of confirmation of interest I will switch to emails and I will ask people if they want to recommend anyone for the party invite list at that point.

Comments are screened. Are you interested in this sort of event? Do you want me to invite you to such an event? Do you wish I would stop assuming you were interested in this sort of event? Please let me know. 🙂

(If there are no major conflicts the weekend of August 25/26 might be good for an event. Please tell me if you know of conflicts.)