I did it! I did it!

I made Noah come with oral sex! … Wait, you say so what? No no no…. you don’t understand. Noah is one of those, “I don’t come from oral sex” people. The kind who says, “It’s happened a few times ever but those times were flukes and there isn’t much point in trying.” Well, HA! I’ve totally been paying attention and playing with technique and it worked! I did it!

I am no longer inferior!!!!!!! YAY!!!!!!!!!!!

And now I go off to therapy where my therapist will congratulate me for overcoming this obstacle. (Dude, it’s kind of sad how much time in therapy has been spent talking about how pathetic I have felt for being inferior in this area.)

15 thoughts on “I did it! I did it!

  1. bldrnrpdx

    I’ve got my own “I never come from that except a few times which were flukes” things. Yay for both of you! Congrats! I wish you many happy “maintenance” sessions on it. 🙂

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  2. malixe

    Heh heh. Congratulations! I expect that’s a happy achievement for both of you. I’m one of those people too. It’s only happened twice, with two different girls who put a lot of time and energy into figuring out what it took.

    I remember the first time, the orgasm was so intense that we had to stop after that, because it put me into the physical symptoms of shock, and I needed to be wrapped in a blanket and given water for a while before I was OK again. After the caretaking was over, she was *quite* pleased with herself, and rightfully so!

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  3. ribbin

    Being in much the same boat as Noah- lucky him! And go you!

    BTW, it’s starting to look like I won’t be able to make it to the reception:(

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  4. dorjejaguar

    You never were inferior but yay anyway.
    It’s true some boys are odd like that, good on you for giving him the extra love and attention.

    *smOOOsh*

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  5. tshuma

    Yay, you!

    B is one of those, he claims. Not “never” but “rarely, and not even consistently with the same person”. He was most surprised the first time we made that happen for him with me. He’s much less surprised nowadays. 🙂

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  6. japlady

    LOL, of course me, I NEVER even tried. In fact in general I could care less if a guy gets off that way. Actually I sort of figure its their thing if they do or do not get off. Yah, I’m seriously selfish.

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  7. anima_fauxsis

    Well, you were never inferior. But I’m glad you have triumphed.

    I think, sometimes, being relaxed around someone you care about allows one to come in a particular way if they normally can’t.

    I think it’s funny that some people who say they can’t come from oral sex actually just don’t like the mess that is generally necessary for a good blow job. When they don’t realize things are getting as… shall we say, slippery as they are and just relax, then they come. But if they try and control the blow job and neaten it up, then they don’t.

    But then, persistent ladies are a large part of the equation too it seems.

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  8. joedecker

    Go you!

    (There’s apparently a trick for manual/oral with me which works pretty well–some months back one of my sweeties taught another it. My life is just wacky that way.)

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